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Seeking Strength: Struggling with Homelessness, Illness, and Debt at 23

Assalamu Alaikum, brothers and sisters. I’m 23 years old, living in Ukraine, and right now life feels really tough. Alhamdulillah, I still have faith, but I’m facing a lot: I’ve been without a home for about a month (recently staying with a friend temporarily), I have health issues with my spleen, and I’m weighed down by debts caused by scams and my own mistakes. On top of that, I’m grieving the loss of my brother in the war, and there’s tension with my parents because of everything going on. You might wonder how I ended up here. I was just a student, trusting and unaware. About a year and a half ago, some strangers started threatening me with personal information and demanded money-around $200, which is a lot here. I was unemployed then and took a loan from a microfinance company thinking I could pay it back once I found work. But the job didn’t come quickly, and I ended up borrowing more to pay off old debts, caught in a cycle for six months. Eventually, I found a job, but by then the debt had grown too big. I was making small payments, but then my brother passed away, and the grief hit me and my family hard. I lost focus on my debts, and my parents, under pressure from collectors, stopped supporting me. Until recently, I lived in a dorm near my university, so I didn’t have to worry about rent. But at the end of August, I was evicted. I spent some time on the streets before moving in with a friend, though I know that won’t last forever. In August, I also started having pain in my side. When I went to the hospital in September, they told me my spleen is enlarged. I haven’t been able to afford medicine, and my health has worsened. I’m nervous about my next check-up and unsure if I’ll go. Money is tight, even for food. The silver lining is that I have a job, but nearly all my salary goes toward paying off debts. It’s really hard to keep going and find motivation. I’m asking for any advice, duas, or help you can offer. I’d be grateful beyond words. If you want to know more or if I can support you in any way, please don’t hesitate to reach out. Jazakum Allahu khairan for listening.

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If you haven't already, check if there are any local NGOs or mosques offering support. Sometimes community help can make a difference.

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This puts a lot into perspective. Hoping your health improves soon and you get some peace. Sending good vibes your way.

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Brother, prayers for you and your family. Stay connected with your faith and community; it’s a strong anchor in times like this.

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Really sorry to hear your story. I've been through debt cycles before; try to focus on small wins and keep your faith tight.

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I can't imagine all that pain at once. Just know you aren't invisible. Keep reaching out and take care of your health first.

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Man, that's a heavy load for anyone, especially at 23. Stay strong, brother. Things can and will get better.

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Sounds really rough. Make sure to prioritize your health. Without that, everything else is harder to fix. One step at a time.

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Hang in there man. Sometimes life hits us hard but don't lose hope. Your story is inspiring in a tough way.

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Honestly, just reading this gives me a new appreciation for what some people face daily. Stay strong and keep sharing your story.

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