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Seeking Advice to Stay Consistent in Salah and Find My Path

Assalamualaikum, dear brothers and sisters. I'm a young person from South Asia, and I've been finding it really hard to keep up with my daily prayers. My family wasn't very observant when I was growing up, but over the last few years, my mother has become more dedicated-she now wears her hijab regularly and prays on time. For a long time, I didn't pay much attention to salah except during Ramadan, and I didn't fully grasp its significance. I went through a phase where I made some poor choices, and I carry a lot of regret about that time. Now, I genuinely want to seek forgiveness from Allah and strengthen my faith. I've recently moved to a place where many young Muslims are more practicing, and it's made me reflect more on my own journey. My mother also encourages me to adopt the hijab, and while I understand its importance, I'm still building my confidence and feeling quite torn. Through my mother's example and some reflections I've come across, I've realized how crucial consistent prayer and modest dress are, but I still struggle with procrastination-I often tell myself 'I'll pray later,' and then miss the time. I also feel I need to learn to read the Quran properly. Adding to this, my family is facing some financial hardship, and I hold onto the hope that with sincere repentance, Allah's help will come. But I feel stuck. I'm supposed to be studying for a major exam, but I've lost all motivation and end up spending too much time on my phone. Since I'm studying from home, my schedule is all over the place-I stay up late and sleep in, often waking up close to Asr time, which just makes everything feel more difficult. I truly desire to change and improve myself, but I don't know where to begin. Any gentle advice or encouraging words would mean so much to me.

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Try the Pillars app for prayer reminders? It helped me a lot. Also, listen to Quran recitations while you study, it helps with focus and peace.

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I was in your shoes. What helped was finding a prayer buddy online. We'd text to remind each other for Zuhr and Asr. You're not alone in this.

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May Allah reward your mother and make her your source of strength. Repentance wipes the slate clean. Hold onto that hope. You can do this!

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The struggle is real sis, especially with studying from home. Try creating a simple routine. Pray, then study for 30 mins, then a break. May Allah ease your affairs.

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Your honesty is beautiful, mashallah. The fact you want to change is the first step. Allah loves those who turn back to Him. Don't give up!

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I felt this so deeply. My journey was similar. Baby steps are okay. Start with Fajr, maybe set an alarm far from your bed so you have to get up.

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Sister, please don't be so hard on yourself. Allah is the Most Merciful. Start with just one prayer on time and build from there. Make lots of dua. May Allah make it easy for you.

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