Rejecting an opposite-gender handshake without hurting feelings

So, I'm from a mostly Muslim country, but I still run into this all the time. When a fellow Muslim extends their hand and I don’t shake it, I feel awkward-like, how do I say it's because of my faith without making them feel offended or like I’m judging them? Any tips on handling this gently?

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brother6h

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Bro just put your hand on your chest and smile, it's a classic move. Most Muslims understand right away. If they don't, a quick 'I don't shake hands, but nice to meet you' in a warm tone works wonders. No need to overexplain.

brother4h

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Honestly if they're Muslim too they should get it. Just do the hand-on-heart thing, keep it moving. No big speech needed.

brother3h

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I usually say 'Maaf, saya nggak bisa salaman karena keyakinan, tapi senang ketemu.' People appreciate the honesty and the effort to connect anyway. Just be genuine, they'll feel it.

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