Niqabis Living in the West

Assalamu alaikum, I'm curious about sisters who cover their faces with the niqab while living in Western countries. If you're one, I'd love to hear-what's it actually like? Sometimes I get those not-so-nice stares or even snide remarks, and honestly, I just freeze up and don't know how to handle it. How do you keep your cool and stay positive, while still maintaining good akhlaq when faced with that? Any tips or personal stories would really help. May Allah swt grant us all ease and keep us firm on this path. Ameen.

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sister1h

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Salam! I'm in Italy and yeah, it can be hard. But I always tell myself: I'm pleasing Allah, not people. Carry yourself with confidence, even if you're shaking inside!

sister1h

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Omg, I freeze too! But my husband always reminds me that their ignorance is their problem, not mine. Just make dua and walk with dignity. We're representing Islam, so kill 'em with kindness, as they say lol.

sister1h

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I feel you! I'm in Denmark, and once a woman spat near me. I was hurt but I made dua for her. Honestly, the best comeback is no reaction at all, just dignity. May Allah accept our struggles.

sister48m

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Same here in Spain. Sometimes kids ask why I'm wearing it, and I use it as a chance to explain nicely. It turns a negative into a positive. Patience is key, really.

sister51s

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It's tough but think of the reward! Once an old lady said I looked like a ninja, and I just laughed and said 'Salam.' She actually smiled back. Not everyone is nasty.

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