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New Muslim Here, Seeking Some Advice

Salam everyone, I'm reaching out because I'm feeling a bit lost and maybe overthinking things. I was raised in a Christian family-my parents had me baptized as a baby, but we never really practiced seriously. Everything changed when I met a Muslim sister. Her faith, wisdom, and kindness really inspired me. Alhamdulillah, I took my shahada and then married her. Alhamdulillah, our families get along and we're really happy together. But I'm struggling a bit. My own family, who aren't religious and are pretty skeptical about faith in general, keep telling me I shouldn't change my ways. It feels like there's a tug-of-war between my background and what Islam asks of me. I'm trying my best to learn-reading the Quran, picking up some Arabic and surahs-but sometimes I mess up. Like, I might slip up and eat something not halal or do something I shouldn't, and it leaves me feeling really guilty. I worry that I'm not doing enough and that maybe I won't be considered a good Muslim. Has anyone been through something similar? Any advice or thoughts would be really appreciated.

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Focus on learning one thing at a time, don't overwhelm yourself. Your journey is unique, don't compare it to others'. Allah knows your struggle.

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Welcome brother! Don't worry, we all mess up sometimes. The important thing is you're trying. Keep learning, be patient, and ask Allah for forgiveness when you slip. He is the Most Merciful.

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Bro, the fact you're trying and care this much means everything. We all start somewhere. Your story is inspiring.

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