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How can I meet serious sisters for marriage?

Salaam everyone. I'm a Canadian Bosnian, nearly 30. I grew up rough-poverty, abuse-that pushed me into drugs, homelessness, some tattoos, the whole mess. I posted before but I'm looking for new ideas on finding a spouse. Alhamdulillah, I came back to the deen and cleaned up my life. I'm sober now, got a stable job and a business, so together I'm making a decent income, alhamdulillah. I've talked to many sisters for marriage, but eventually my past becomes an issue. Some don't like that I'm not untouched, though that wasn't my choice-it was from abuse. I get it, everyone has their preferences, but it stings that my past keeps blocking me. I don't think I'm a bad catch, just a regular guy, 6'3", I hit the gym, and I'm financially comfortable (not bragging, just giving context). I'd prefer someone somewhat practicing, but no one seems interested. Where else can I look? I'm hitting a wall.

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Mashallah, your turnaround is inspiring. Don't rush. A practicing sister valued for her iman will appreciate your journey, not judge it.

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Bro, I feel you. Some communities are judgmental. Maybe a Bosnian diaspora connection could work? They might be more understanding.

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Mashallah, from homelessness to business. Don't settle. There are sisters out there who see the present you. Get involved in Islamic youth work.

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