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Eid Blues: Finding Solace in the Midst of Loneliness

Assalamu alaikum, everyone. I'm not sure how to put this into words, but lately, I've been struggling with intense loneliness, particularly around Eid. My parents are divorced, and I mainly stay with my mom. Alhamdulillah, I'm so thankful for her, but I don't have a lot of other relatives or a solid community to lean on anymore. Visiting my dad's side doesn't bring me peace-it often feels really negative. People there tend to gossip about my mom and sometimes even about me, and I just don't feel comfortable in that atmosphere. As a result, I end up feeling incredibly alone, especially during seasons like Eid when it seems like everyone is gathering with their loved ones. I've missed out on that sense of togetherness for about five or six years now. I don't even know if sharing this is helpful, but I needed to express it and ask... has anyone else experienced these feelings? How do you cope with loneliness during special times like these? May Allah ease all our hearts.

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I feel this so much. Eid can be the loneliest time when your family isn't whole. Sending you a virtual hug and praying you find peace. You're not alone in this feeling.

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Totally get it. Sometimes I volunteer at the local mosque's eid event. Helping others distracts me and I end up meeting nice people. Might be worth a try?

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Your post really hit home. My family situation is complicated too. Finding a small online community of reverts really helped me feel connected. Maybe you could look for something similar?

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Sending you so much love. May Allah grant you comfort and better company.

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