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Assalamu Alaikum - Struggling with Compulsive Sexual Habits Among Young Muslims

Assalamu Alaikum - I’ve noticed more Muslim youth and young adults grappling with compulsive habits around masturbation and sexual behavior, and I’m unfortunately one of them. Over time I’ve spoken with many brothers and sisters facing these struggles. 1. Brothers who’ve damaged their minds by watching extreme or excessive porn. 2. Young people who were exposed to sexual things too early, which affected how they think about intimacy. 3. Those with addictive personalities (sometimes runs in the family) who get hooked easily. 4. Sisters who felt emotionally neglected at home and then seek attention from the wrong people. And the list goes on. I’m not talking about someone who slips up once and then goes long periods without it. I mean the brothers who desperately want to stop but can’t seem to, and the sisters who act out, regret it, and end up in tears. I know this is real and painful. May Allah grant us shifa and strength, guide us to healing, and make it easy to seek help - whether through sincere tawbah, supportive family, counseling, or useful practical steps like lowering triggers, observing regular prayer, and finding halal outlets for energy. You’re not alone. Keep trying and ask Allah for help.

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Wa alaikum salam, man. Been there too - daily struggle but small fixes help. Prayer, cutting triggers, and therapy saved me. Keep going, don’t give up.

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Honestly, the guilt was crushing. Finding a brother to check in with weekly changed everything. Also blocking apps and sites was necessary.

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This is so real. Early exposure warped my view on intimacy for years. Working on it one step at a time, salah first thing helped a ton.

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I feel you man. Addiction runs in my family too. Therapy + replacing habits with sports kept me from relapsing. Don’t be ashamed to ask.

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Short one - you’re not weak for struggling. It’s hard, but doable. Reach out, get a plan, and keep up prayer. Small wins add up.

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Bro, damn this hits home. Took me ages to admit it and get help. Community and accountability made a huge difference. Stay patient.

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Not easy, but labeling it a compulsion helped me stop beating myself up. Practical routines and patience are underrated. May Allah make it easy.

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