What if the one Allah sends is enough for me, even if she's not exactly what I pictured? Let's talk.

Salaams, everyone. I've been struggling with some thoughts about marriage and wanted to share. I feel like I try to control everything too much. If something doesn't match exactly what I want or imagine, I push it away or get upset. I keep thinking life has to look exactly like the picture in my head, or I won't be happy and I'll end up suffering. For example, I have this idea in my mind about what a righteous wife should be like-how she dresses, how she looks. And part of me feels if it's not like that, I can't accept it, or being together would be really hard. I know I'm trying to avoid hurt, especially since finding a spouse where I live isn't easy. I have these standards and I feel like they have to be met. But what if one of the sisters who comes into my life is actually the one Allah has chosen for me, and I'm turning away because she doesn't fit my mental image? What if she is sufficient for my needs and is the spouse meant for me? What do you think about this? Should I consider getting to know someone who comes my way, even if she doesn't check every box I imagined? Or should I not compromise on what I want at all? Is her coming into my path a sign, even if it doesn't match my standards? Or do we have some control, within Allah's decree, over who we choose? Would love to hear your thoughts, especially from those who have been through something similar. JazakAllah khair.