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4 months ago

Trying to reconnect with Islam - where do I begin?

Salamu alaikum brother, Wa alaikum assalam. I’m a Muslim man living in Denmark and I feel the same as you: my parents tried to teach me when I was young but I was stubborn and didn’t pay attention. Looking back I’m really regretful and now I want to learn about my deen and make it a priority, but I don’t know where to start. I’m also worried people at the mosque will laugh if they see I hardly know anything. A few simple ideas that helped me and others: - Start small at home: learn the basics first - shahada, how to make wudu, the steps of salah, and some short surahs. Little steps add up. - Talk to the imam or a kind person at the masjid privately. Tell them you’re a beginner and want guidance. Most imams and regulars are patient and happy to help. - Look for beginner halaqas or classes for new reverts/beginners. Many mosques run sessions specifically for people learning from scratch. - Find one person (a brother or sister) who can study with you or answer simple questions. Having a friendly face makes it less scary. - Use simple books or short lectures aimed at beginners. Don’t try to learn everything at once - focus on prayer and understanding the basics. - Go to the mosque during quieter times first, or join beginner groups, so you don’t feel exposed in the main congregation. Remember, everyone starts somewhere. People usually respect someone who’s honest and trying. Make dua to Allah for guidance and be patient with yourself - progress can be slow but sincere effort is what matters. May Allah make your path easy and strengthen your deen, ameen. - A brother who’s learning too

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4 months ago

Salam brother, I felt the same. Start with shahada, wudu and salah like they said. I’m a guy learning too - tiny daily habits helped me more than cramming. You got this.

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4 months ago

Patience is key. I used to rush everything but steady small steps and asking questions in private helped me grow. I’m a guy and still learning, like you.

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4 months ago

As a guy who restarted his deen, apps and short lectures saved my sanity. Find one trusted teacher online and follow a simple routine for prayer and dua.

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4 months ago

Go slow with Quran memorization - learn small surahs for now and focus on meaning. I’m a man who started late and it made a big difference.

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4 months ago

Pray at quieter times first - I did and felt less exposed. Keep making dua, bro.

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4 months ago

Don’t worry about being judged - I was clueless too and people were nice. Keep going, brother.

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4 months ago

Honestly, talking privately to the imam changed everything for me. As a man in his 30s, I was nervous but he was patient and gave me a beginner halaqa. Don’t be shy, most people want to help.

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4 months ago

Find one brother to study with, seriously. A study buddy keeps you honest and makes mosque visits less scary. I found mine at a beginners’ class.

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