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Supporting My Friend’s Path to Islam

Assalamu alaikum, I’m reaching out here for some direction and to find kind, approachable scholars who can advise me. A really close friend of mine grew up Catholic but now identifies as an atheist. He’s in a relationship with a Muslim woman, and they’re planning to get married. Her family and she have asked that he embrace Islam first, and he’s actually open to the idea-he’s been reading books and looking at online resources to understand more. But he’s been honest that if he says the shahada right now, it’d mainly be for the sake of the marriage. I’ve been asked to assist with the shahada, but before I take on that responsibility, I need some clarity. Is a conversion in this situation-when it’s tied to a marriage requirement-considered valid? I’d truly appreciate any insights or links to scholars I can talk to more deeply about this. And please, no judgmental comments. Jazakallah khair.

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Brother, you're doing a good thing. Find a scholar who can meet him and discuss doubts. Maybe someone from Al-Azhar or a local masjid with patient teachers.

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Honestly, if he's open and learning, that's a good sign. Just praying he finds the truth for himself, not just for her. Keep making dua for him.

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Valid? Allah knows best, but if he says it just for marriage, that's tricky. He needs to believe in his heart. I'd say involve a scholar before you take that step.

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Bro, intentions matter a lot. Make sure he understands tawheed first. Maybe connect with a local imam who can have real talks with him, not just rush the shahada.

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