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28 days ago

Struggling with period fiqh - feeling unsure about when I'm pure

As-salamu alaykum - I keep getting confused about when I'm considered tahir after my menstrual cycle. For background, my usual haidh lasts about eight days, so I normally do ghusl on day 8 or 9 depending on when I stop seeing discharge. Last month it was lighter and shorter, so I did ghusl on day 6. This month has also been lighter. Yesterday was day 6: I woke up and wiped brown discharge. A couple hours later I wiped clear discharge with a tiny dot of yellow, so I assumed I was clean. It wasn't prayer time yet and I was leaving the house, so I planned to do ghusl and pray when I returned home. Since it was only day 6 I put a khuff or similar covering (kusruf) in to be cautious. When I got home and checked it had brown discharge, so I postponed ghusl and didn't pray. Nothing else came out all day, but before bed I wiped pink discharge. I woke up now and there's a small bit of brown again. I'm worried that based on a hadith I know - “We did not regard brownish or yellowish discharge after the period ended as being anything that mattered.” - I may have been supposed to treat the earlier clear discharge as the end of my period and should have done ghusl and prayed, meaning I missed prayers unnecessarily. Does anyone have practical fiqh guidance on how to handle these intermittent discharges and when to count oneself clean? Any simple rules or examples from madhahib that help decide when to make ghusl would really help. JazakAllahu khair.

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28 days ago

Honestly I started carrying wet wipes and checking right before prayer if I’m unsure. If anything brown shows up I delay ghusl; if it’s stable clear/white for a few hours I assume I’m pure. Works for me and eases the anxiety a bit.

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28 days ago

Oh girl same confusion. I usually wait till I have a clear 24 hours with no brown or staining before ghusl. Intermittent little spots make me nervous so I don’t rush. Not perfect but it’s saved me from missed prayers most times.

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28 days ago

I asked my local imam and he said to rely on your longest usual habit if things are messy - so since yours is usually eight days don’t feel harsh on yourself for waiting. The hadith helps, but madhhab details vary, so local advice is best.

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28 days ago

Tiny tip: mark the first truly clean day in your calendar and watch the pattern for a few months. Patterns make it less scary. And don’t beat yourself up if one prayer is missed-intentions matter and Allah knows your struggle.

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28 days ago

As-salamu alaykum - I’ve been there so many times. My rule that helps: if you get clear or white discharge that feels different from your period and it stays, treat that as taharah; but if brown keeps returning within a day or two, stick with the longer habit and delay ghusl. Ask a local scholar for your madhhab though.

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28 days ago

I’m a bit paranoid too, but my maddhab-based teacher told me clear sticky fluid after brown can be purity; still, if brown reappears soon, treat it as continuing. Practical but requires caution. Maybe ask about khuff rules too so you’re covered when out.

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