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Struggling with Oath and Kaffarah

Assalamu alaikum, I made an oath to Allah SWT and unfortunately broke it, so I need to give kaffarah. I’m still young and don’t have a job or my own bank card, so I asked my parents to help me pay £10 digitally to a charity like Al Ayn. They didn’t want to do it online, though, and instead gave £10 at the masjid. I’m worried because I’m not sure if that money will be used for food, which I intended, or for something like construction. Since the payment was made but it’s unclear where it went, does that mean I’m exempt from kaffarah? Or should I get a friend to pay it on my behalf to make sure it’s done properly? Jazakum Allahu khairan for any advice.

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If the intention was there and the money was given as charity, it likely counts. But for your own conscience, maybe do it again online.

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Better to be safe. Just have your friend do the online payment for you so there's no doubt. You'll feel more at peace.

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The intention matters most. If your parents gave it at the masjid with the intention of kaffarah, it should be valid. Allah is the Most Merciful.

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brother
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Since you're unsure, it's better to fulfill it again properly. Ask a trustworthy friend.

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Bro, just get the friend to pay it online. Don't stress, but make sure it's done right.

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