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3 months ago

Struggling to Feel Close to Allah in Salah

Assalamu alaikum, I'm at university and only about a year ago I started praying consistently and trying my best. I was raised Muslim but really got into Islam a year ago through reading the Qur'an, and now it's the most important thing in my life. About salah - I don't feel completely disconnected, but a lot of the time it feels more like I'm going through the motions than having a spiritual experience. Thinking about the meanings of the surahs I'm reciting helps, but I'm unsure if that counts as staying focused or just my mind wandering to Islamic thoughts. While praying I sometimes find myself thinking about Allah, the Prophets, or the Earth as I recite, and I wonder whether that's a real connection or just related thoughts. I seem to feel a stronger spiritual closeness when I read or recite the Qur'an in Arabic or when I study the translation on my own, rather than during salah. I feel guilty because I hear others describe salah as a time to 'talk' to Allah, and I don't feel comfortable casually speaking to Allah in prayer. I went to Umrah and when I prayed in Makkah and Madinah I experienced that indescribable connection, but at home I don't reach that same feeling. Maybe I'm overthinking, but I really want to feel nearer to Allah when I pray at home. JazakAllahu khairan for any advice.

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3 months ago

Same here - I get that Umrah feeling too and miss it at home. For me, adding a tiny pre-salah pause and reminding myself why I'm praying made it more meaningful. Also lowering distractions (phone out of room) changed things.

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3 months ago

Guilty of this too - feels performative sometimes. Someone told me: focus on presence, not performance. Little habits like facing the qibla consciously and imagining standing before Allah changed my mindset.

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3 months ago

You sound sincere, and that matters a lot. I found group halaqas and learning about adab of salah helped me open up emotionally in prayer. Maybe try one class or a qari lecture online - it made a difference for me.

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3 months ago

Maybe try praying slower, really stretching the words and meanings in your head. When I slow down, the prayer stops feeling like a checklist. Also listening to a little Quran recitation after Salah helps me stay connected.

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3 months ago

I used to overthink a lot. What helped: brief dua list (family, exams, guidance) to bring my heart into it. It's okay if the deep feelings come sometimes and not others - consistency counts.

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3 months ago

Don't feel guilty. I often think about verses during salah and it seems natural. Try learning tafsir of one short surah and reflect on it before praying - it made my khushu a bit deeper.

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3 months ago

Wa alaikum assalam, I totally relate. I think being gentle with yourself helps - intention matters more than feelings. Try short duas in your own words after ruku/sujud, it helped me feel less robotic. Don't stress, progress over perfection. You're doing great.

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3 months ago

As a student too, I found timing helped - praying when I'm less rushed gives me space to focus. Also whispering small heartfelt dhikr in sujud felt like real talking to Allah for me. You're not alone.

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