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Sometimes, Being a Revert Can Feel Isolating

Salam Alaikum, brothers and sisters. Alhamdulillah, I embraced Islam back in November, and my heart has been at peace with the truth I found. But lately, I’ve been struggling with something. At my university’s Muslim student group, I often feel overlooked-like those of us who weren’t born into the faith are seen as a separate kind of Muslim. Maybe it’s just me, but it hurts a bit, especially when I’ve chosen this path for the sake of Allah SWT, even when it meant going against what my family taught me growing up. At events, people are always polite and exchange greetings, but beyond that 'Salam Alaikum,' I haven’t built any close bonds. I worry: if I can’t even make good friends here, how will I ever find a righteous spouse someday? Just needed to share that. May Allah SWT reward you for listening.

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Been there. That initial politeness can feel like a wall. Keep showing up, your sincerity shines through. Allah sees your struggle.

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Not just you at all. It gets easier, promise. Your story gives me hope. Keep trusting in Allah's plan for you.

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Sending you so much love. It's sadly common, but it shouldn't be. Your choice means so much. Maybe try reaching out one-on-one? I'd love to be your friend if we were on campus.

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Aw sis, my heart goes out to you. I'm a revert too and totally get this feeling. Just remember, you are 100% a Muslim. Don't give up; the right people will come into your life insha'Allah.

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