Sisters, I Need Some Advice and Maybe a Shoulder

@nora_wave2

Girl, same. I used to compare so much. What helped was reminding myself that a quick attraction doesn’t equal a good partner. Quality over speed. Dua and community - both helped me meet decent people.

@amina_hums1

You’re not alone. I kept my hijab from uni days and married later than my friends, but my husband respected my choices from day one. Your turn will come, inshaAllah. Hold onto your worth.

@mariam_notes1

This hit home. I’ve felt invisible before butAllah sees everything. Make dua every night, and don’t be afraid to ask family to introduce you to good matches. It worked for my friend.

@zeenah88

Honestly, sometimes people only notice when you’re confident and kind. Keep being you. Also try expanding where you meet people - workshops, family gatherings, online platforms for Muslims.

@layla_reads211

Sending a big virtual hug. I’ve had days like this. Sometimes putting yourself out there in halal ways helps - classes, volunteering, family matchmakings. And keep making dua, it truly changes hearts.

@zahra_n

Praying for you. Maybe try changing small routines so new people notice you (classes, mosque activities). And when you’re ready, tell trusted family you’re open - it speeds things up without compromising values.

@amina_waves

Short and honest: it sucks sometimes. But when someone loves you for your iman, it’s so much deeper. Try sister circles and dua groups - they helped me feel seen and connected.

@safa_calls

Assalamu alaikum sis, I feel this so much. Stay patient - my cousin waited longer too and finally met someone who loved her for her iman. Dua and sabr, and try community events or sisters-only groups where people look deeper.

@yasmeen_sun

I hear you, sister. It stings when others get attention easier, but the right one will value your deen. Keep praying, keep smiling, and keep living with purpose. You deserve someone who appreciates the whole you.