Simple tip: Make habits stick by pairing them with a tiny version - As-salamu alaykum
As-salamu alaykum - I used to be an all-or-nothing person. If I missed a workout one day I’d convince myself the whole week was ruined. If I didn’t clean the kitchen one night I’d let it slide for a few more because “the streak’s over anyway.” Felt like I was always restarting from zero. Then someone mentioned doing a one-minute version of a habit on days when your energy or motivation is completely gone. It sounded silly at first, but it changed things for me. Here’s the idea. Pick a habit you want to build, then make a micro version that takes under sixty seconds and needs no prep. My main habit is a twenty-minute home workout, but my micro habit is literally five squats next to my bed. If I’m sick, exhausted, or stressed and know I won’t do the full session, I do the five squats. The chain stays unbroken. My mind still gets that sense of completion so the day doesn’t feel like a failure. I started doing this with other parts of life too. Too tired to clean the whole kitchen at night? I wipe one counter. Too overwhelmed to journal? I write one sentence. Too drained to practice Arabic or another language? I do one flashcard. Funny thing is, half the time the tiny version tricks my brain into continuing - five squats turn into ten minutes of movement because starting was the real hurdle. Best part: it removes the guilt. You don’t spiral over a “failure.” You don’t restart habits over and over. You just shrink them until they fit the day you’re having. Keeping that little thread intact feels much more sustainable than forcing perfection. Give it a try - may Allah make it easy.