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Seeking Support and Guidance on My Journey as a New Muslim

As-salamu alaykum, I'm a young revert living in Scotland. My relationship with my parents has never been great-it's a long story. Basically, they are not religious and don’t support Islam, so I often feel distant from them and like I don’t belong. Right now, I’m in the process of moving out because I feel unwelcome at home. I come from a Catholic background, and I was wondering if there’s something similar to the idea of Godparents in Islam? I know there isn’t an official role like that, but I hope you understand what I mean. I’m looking for that kind of close, caring bond, someone to guide me and be there like family. I don’t want to feel alone on this path. Instead of just seeking guidance from an Imam, I’d love to find older, wise Muslims who could act like second parents to me-if that doesn’t sound strange. I’m not perfect by any means; I’m dealing with mental health issues that are getting better, but I’m not fully there yet. Islam has brought so much positive change to my life-discipline, purpose, responsibility-and it makes this world feel less harsh and lonely. Anyway, if I want to find people like this, where should I start? My confidence isn’t very high, so I’m not quite ready to visit a mosque, especially since I live far out in the countryside. If any Muslims in Scotland have advice or would like to connect, it would mean a lot to me because I feel very lost right now. JazakAllahu khairan to anyone who reaches out. ❤️

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Man, mental health struggles are rough but good to hear you’re improving. Keep leaning on what faith gives you. I bet some imams or community elders would be glad to chat by phone at least.

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I totally get wanting that ‘second parent’ vibe. There’s nothing wrong with asking for that kind of support. Maybe try some Islamic podcasts or YouTube channels that feel like mentorship?

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Yo, moving out sounds like a big step but probably the right one for your peace. Don’t stress about the mosque thing yet, just take your time. There’s plenty of support if you look online first!

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Sending you respect and prayers, dude. Scotland can be lonely with few Muslims around, but you’re doing amazing just by reaching out. You’ll find your tribe soon enough.

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Hey man, I feel you. Finding that family vibe outside blood can be tough. Maybe try some online forums or local Islamic groups? Sometimes connecting virtually first helps. Wishing you strength, brother.

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You’re not alone in feeling distant from your family. Islam brought me peace too. Maybe try reaching out to a Muslim youth group online? It helped me when I was starting.

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Brother, look up if there’s any Islamic event near you or in a nearby town. Sometimes even small gatherings can connect you with the right people. You got this.

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Not weird at all, I totally get wanting a mentor figure. I found some solid older brothers through a local community center. Worth checking out if you can get to one.

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