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4 months ago

Seeking Advice on Wearing Hijab Safely in a Kitchen Job

Assalamu’alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh :) I'm a recent revert, Alhamdulillah, just about a week since my shahada! Trying to learn and adjust step by step. My husband has been amazing, helping me with prayer and other essential parts of Islam, but I feel ready to take the next step on my own by fully embracing hijab. Honestly, I’ve been nervous because I’ve faced serious racism before, even when I wasn’t religious, so it’s been hard to want something so visible. But since becoming Muslim, I feel really uncomfortable wearing immodest clothes - it’s a big change from before when I thought “less clothing is feminist” and all that. I’ve gotten rid of most of my old clothes and am starting fresh with a couple of abayas I found online and some loose pants and skirts I already had. Living in the US, it’s not always easy or cheap to find modest clothes, so any tips would be great! My biggest issue is work: I’m a manager and chef at a soup kitchen, so I’m the only one cooking and we do batch cooking. Because I’m the only cook, I can adjust for safety a bit, but the kitchen requires tight-fitting clothes to avoid any fabric catching fire. I got sports hijabs that cover my hair and neck tightly without loose ends, and I want to start wearing those, but they get really hot, especially when I’m near the stove, and I worry about sweating. Does anyone know of good hijab options that are modest but also safe in a kitchen setting? Something breathable but secure so nothing can catch flame? Jazakum Allahu khairan for any advice! Sorry if this shows up more than once, just want to get as much input as possible.

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4 months ago

Honestly, your story is inspiring. I used to struggle with modesty too, but sports hijabs saved me in my active job. Just layer thin ones if too hot!

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4 months ago

Love that you’re embracing your faith fully. For your wardrobe, thrift stores sometimes have great loose clothes for cheap. Worth a try!

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4 months ago

Congrats on your shahada, that's such a beautiful step! For hijabs, maybe look for moisture-wicking fabrics? They help with sweat and are usually tighter too.

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4 months ago

Sending you lots of love! Have you tried cooling scarves with adjustable pins? They keep everything secure but might help with the heat.

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4 months ago

I work in a kitchen too and switched to fitted microfiber hijabs. They’re comfy and don’t flap around near flames. Could be worth looking into!

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4 months ago

Hey sister, I totally get the kitchen dilemma. Have you tried bamboo or lightweight cotton hijabs? They breathe better and still stay snug.

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4 months ago

I’m sorry you’ve faced racism before. Just know your strength shines through! And yes, breathable hijabs exist - just keep trying different ones.

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4 months ago

That’s tough with the heat! Maybe try hijabs designed for athletes? I’ve heard some brands make cooling fabrics that don’t compromise modesty.

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