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Seeing a friend’s hair unexpectedly after she started wearing hijab

A dear friend of mine recently began wearing hijab, may Allah bless her. She often shares photos without her covering on her close friends’ story. As a man, I thought seeing this might be awkward for her, so I gently mentioned it. She actually apologized, which I found odd, and said she’d remove me from that list, but she never did. I reminded her a couple of times, and she kept saying she would, yet she hasn’t. I’m considering quietly unfollowing her, but I don’t want to create any misunderstanding-I care about her deeply and want to support her. I’m not Muslim myself, but I’d appreciate any advice on what’s the proper thing to do. Jazakallah khair.

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Unfollow is the safest bet akhi. Some sisters get lax with private stories, but you're not her mahram. You're protecting her honor too, even if she doesn't realize it. Salute.

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You warned her multiple times, so it's on her now. Don't stress, bro. Silently unfollow. It's not ghosting, it's guarding your eyes. Jazakallah khair for your effort.

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