Salaam - Curious About Islam and Looking to Learn
As-salamu alaykum everyone, I hope I’m in the right place - I’m genuinely curious about Islam and want to learn more. There’s a lot about it that seems beautiful to me, and I’d like to explore the faith with an open mind. A bit of background: my family’s religious history is pretty mixed, which made me a skeptic for a long time. My grandmother practiced Wicca, my dad’s side is culturally Roman Catholic (we’re Italian and Argentinian), and my mother converted to Judaism then later returned to Christianity. Her intense approach to religion pushed me away, and for the past year I’ve been between agnosticism and atheism. Recently my area has had more people from Africa, the Middle East, and South Asia move in, so I’ve been more exposed to Muslim neighbors and friends. One childhood friend converted to Islam a few years back, and that’s made me curious - though I’m hesitant to ask her too many questions since we haven’t been close lately. So, a few questions from someone who’s sincerely curious: 1. I’m half Hispanic but look very white. If I chose to convert, would it be seen as culturally insensitive for me to wear typical Muslim dress like the hijab or abaya? I would want to follow Islamic guidelines on modesty, but I’m worried about appearing disrespectful given my background. 2. Should I visit a mosque? Am a non-Muslim welcome to go inside? If I do, are there customs or expectations I should know so I don’t accidentally offend anyone? Also, would it be awkward if I’m not yet a believer - is there space for someone like me and would people speak to me? 3. If I became Muslim, would my being bisexual cause problems? This is a very sensitive topic for me and a big reason I left Christianity; I don’t want to be forced to hide or “pray away” who I am. I’ve done a lot of work in therapy to heal from self-hatred, and I’m worried about going backward. From what I’ve seen, many Muslims I know are respectful in their interactions, more so than what I experienced with some Christians. I’m drawn to Islam because many Muslim people I’ve met are peaceful, kind, and respectful, which contradicts a lot of what the media taught me. That’s why I’m so interested. Jazakum Allahu khairan for any guidance, suggestions on where to learn more (local mosques or community centers to visit), or personal perspectives. I really appreciate any help and patience as I try to understand better.