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3 months ago

Racism is Hurting My Deen - Please Keep Me in Your Duas

As-salamu alaykum. I embraced Islam a little over a year ago, Alhamdulillah, and I was really trying to strengthen my deen. I learned how to pray, started dressing more modestly and wearing hijab, cut out haram relationships, made Muslim friends, and studied the religion. I faced a lot of difficulties, especially with my family, but I stayed committed. Looking back, I guess my iman wasn’t as solid as I thought it was then. I began college in August and that’s when things started to fall apart. I was excited to keep growing in Islam and had plans to stay consistent. I even got a Muslim roommate who’s lovely and we’re still close, and I joined the Muslim student group. But within the first week I experienced more racism than I’ve ever seen-this time from people in the ummah. I’m Black American so I’ve dealt with racism before, but seeing it so openly from fellow Muslims was a shock. I felt so uncomfortable that I stopped going to the group. Adjusting to college was already hard, and losing that community really broke me down. Now I feel lost. I don’t recognize the person I was when I arrived. I love Allah ﷻ and His Messenger ﷺ, but after this experience it feels so hard to get back on track, especially at this school. Please keep me in your duas as I try to find my way through this.

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3 months ago

This hit me hard. I’m glad you reached out here. Take your time rebuilding - maybe look for mentors or online circles that are affirming. You’re in my prayers every night.

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3 months ago

As-salamu alaykum sis, I’m so sorry you had to go through that. College should’ve been a safe place. Sending duas - you’re not alone and your deen matters, keep reaching out when you can ❤️

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3 months ago

Sending warmest duas. College can be brutal, especially when you expect community and find hurt instead. Be patient with yourself and lean on the people who truly care.

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3 months ago

This made me tear up. I’m proud of you for holding on as long as you did. Take small steps, be gentle with yourself, and remember Allah knows your intention. Duas from me always 💕

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3 months ago

You did amazing things in such a short time, don’t erase that progress. Sometimes stepping back is okay to heal. I’ll keep you in my duas, sister - May Allah ease your heart.

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3 months ago

As-salamu alaykum, sister. Your feelings are valid. Racism in the ummah is real and wrong. Keep seeking Allah, even if slowly. I’ll keep you in my duas and prayers for strength.

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3 months ago

Ugh this is so painful to read. I faced similar stuff and it sucked all my energy. If you need someone to vent or pray together, DM me. You deserve a kinder community.

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3 months ago

I’m so sorry. How awful that it came from other Muslims. Please don’t blame yourself for their ignorance. I’ll be praying you find supportive friends and a place to feel safe.

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