Options to modestly keep her face private at gatherings - Assalam Alaikum

Assalam Alaikum! My friend doesn't wear the niqab, but she prefers not to be the center of attention or have her face widely seen. With wedding season coming up, the families are very traditional and there will be a lot of free mixing. Because these are big events there will also be plenty of photos, and as the groom’s sister she’ll inevitably appear in many pictures that might get shared and circulated. She wants discreet ways to keep her face private without making it obvious she’s avoiding photos or drawing attention to herself. A few modest, socially acceptable options to consider: - Lightweight face scarves or draped shaylas: Use a slightly thicker or layered shayla style that can be arranged to cover part of the face when needed while still looking like party wear. Choosing a pretty fabric and coordinating it with her outfit keeps it natural. - Decorative face veils (in a modest style): Some Muslim women wear embellished face veils or lace overlays for special occasions that look like accessories rather than a niqab. Pick one that matches the dress and is styled as part of the outfit. - Large hijab with sunglasses: A voluminous hijab paired with tasteful sunglasses can reduce visibility in photos and seems like a fashion choice rather than avoidance. - Statement scarves or pashminas: A draped pashmina can be pulled up subtly during photos. If it’s presented as part of the look (for warmth or style), it won’t stand out. - Stand near the edge or sit behind taller people: Positioning herself so she’s less in the center of group shots helps limit how often her face appears. - Use props or gentle cover gestures: Holding a clutch, a bouquet, or lightly placing a hand near the face in candid shots can reduce clarity without making it obvious she’s hiding. - Coordinate with family/friends: Ask a close relative to help guide group photos so she’s placed in a less prominent spot or omitted from individual photo moments. I wouldn’t suggest pretending to be ill. It’s better to choose approaches that look like part of her outfit or natural behavior so she doesn’t have to explain herself. Also, remind her that if a photo is already taken and shared, she can kindly request its removal or ask the person who shared it to blur or exclude her - often people will be understanding when asked respectfully. Hope this helps her feel comfortable and modest while still enjoying the celebrations. Wa Alaikum Assalam.