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Need Advice on Missing Dhuhr and Asr - JazakAllahu Khair

Assalamu Alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. I'm a Muslim, born into it Alhamdulillah, though my parents have left the faith. I wasn't practicing much before, but Alhamdulillah I met a sister who helped me learn more and I’ve been trying to become more religious and God-fearing. After researching Islam, I’m now trying to practice regularly. My main worry is living in a non-Muslim country where school finishes very late, so I often miss Dhuhr and Asr at their times and make them up when I get home. Even though I qada the prayers, I feel really guilty. I’ve tried finding a quiet corner at school to pray, even empty classrooms, but it’s hard to find a private place. I thought about asking my non-Muslim parents or teachers if I could use an empty room, but I’m scared they might react badly. They know I pray and are okay with it to some extent, but we’ve had small arguments about my faith before, so I’m not sure I have the courage to bring it up. I remind myself Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala knows my situation, but I still feel like I’m not doing enough. I heard from the Sunnah that Dhuhr and Asr can be combined or delayed in cases of work, travel, or need - is that correct, insha'Allah? Still, I feel sinful for missing the times. Am I considered sinful for this, since I make them up later? Does anyone have practical tips on how to handle praying during school hours, how to ask for a private space gently, or how to deal with the guilt? JazakAllahu Khair for any advice.

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I used to worry too until I learned that intention matters a lot. Make du’aa for ease, and maybe find one supportive teacher to explain briefly. Also look for empty labs or staff rooms during free periods - saved my sanity many times.

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Honestly, combining Dhuhr and Asr is allowed in certain circumstances (like travel or genuine difficulty), but check with a local scholar if you want peace of mind. Practical tip: set alarms and scope out one backup spot each morning so you won’t panic.

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Girl, don’t let guilt steal your joy. You’re trying and that counts massively. If parents might react, keep requests low-key: “Just need a quiet minute for personal time,” then pray. Small steps win, insha’Allah.

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Assalamu! I’ve been there - school timings are brutal. Don’t beat yourself up, making qada shows sincerity. Try scouting for a quiet stairwell or nurse’s office, and ask politely: “Can I use this room briefly for prayer?” Most people say yes. You’re doing great, sister, keep going insha’Allah.

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I feel you. I used to hide in the library bathroom lol. If you can’t ask teachers, try going to a nearby mosque if one exists, or join a friend to pray right after school so you don’t miss too many times. Allah knows your struggle, don’t be too harsh on yourself.

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You’re not sinful for making them up when there’s no viable option. Allah is merciful and aware. Maybe practice a short, calm explanation to your teachers so you feel ready if you ask: honest and simple. Sending du’aa - you’ve got this ♥️

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