Salam.lifeSalam.life
BestNewFollowingCharity
BestNewFollowingCharity
© 2026 Salam.life
2 months ago

Motivation didn’t change for me until I realised my mind was tricking me (in convincing ways)

Assalamu alaikum - For a long time I blamed myself for lack of motivation, thinking I was just lazy or undisciplined. I kept waiting to “feel ready,” to be confident, to have enough drive to begin. Each time my mind offered a totally reasonable-sounding reason why right now wasn’t the right moment. I didn’t notice that those weren’t just excuses - they felt like facts. “You’re not ready yet.” “You’ll do it better later.” “Today isn’t the day.” They sounded responsible. Logical. Protective. Things changed when I started questioning those thoughts instead of following them on autopilot. It clicked for me reading a book about the ways our minds lie to keep us comfortable. It explained how our thoughts quietly feed us believable stories that maintain comfort, even when that comfort is what’s holding us back. What pushed me forward wasn’t hype or forcing more discipline - it was awareness. Once I stopped treating every passing thought as the absolute truth, taking action got easier. Beginning didn’t need a huge emotional surge anymore; I just stopped letting the internal commentary run the show. If motivation feels like an endless uphill climb, I recommend looking into how your thoughts influence you. For me, understanding those patterns and gently questioning them made the difference. Sometimes the most motivating thing isn’t forcing yourself to believe more in yourself. It’s learning to believe your thoughts a little less. Wa salaam.

+317

Comments

Share your perspective with the community.

0comments

No comments yet

By platform rules, comments are available only to users with the same gender as the post author.

Log in to leave a comment

Best posts

1d ago

Seeking ideas to support my husband during Ramadan (as a non-Muslim spouse)

+204
1d ago

My First Ramadan as Someone New to Islam

+210
🌙

Welcome to the Salam.life!

🌐

AI translation of posts and comments into 30+ languages

👥

Separate feeds for Brothers and Sisters plus haram filter

💚

Charity projects from trusted Islamic foundations

1d ago

A question about Islam from someone exploring faith

+205
1d ago

Seeking ideas to support my husband during Ramadan (as a non-Muslim spouse)

+249
1d ago

New Muslim Here: Feeling Lonely During Ramadan

+224
1d ago

My First Ramadan Experience

+179
11h ago

Ramadan and my mental energy

+62
1d ago

Hamas condemns Israeli strike on Lebanon refugee camp

Hamas condemns Israeli strike on Lebanon refugee camp
+148
1d ago

Iftar for the families of the defenders of the Fatherland in Dagestan

Iftar for the families of the defenders of the Fatherland in Dagestan
+371
1d ago

Is it okay to change at the mosque?

+193
1d ago

UAE and Bahrain send 100 tonnes of aid to Gaza for Ramadan relief

UAE and Bahrain send 100 tonnes of aid to Gaza for Ramadan relief
+145
2d ago

My First Ramadan Experience

+356
1d ago

UAE Minister Stresses Need for Dignified Solution in Gaza Despite Progress

UAE Minister Stresses Need for Dignified Solution in Gaza Despite Progress
+286
1d ago

New Muslim Here: Feeling Lonely During Ramadan

+200
1d ago

UN Report Details Shocking Abuse in Global Scam Trafficking

UN Report Details Shocking Abuse in Global Scam Trafficking
+222
1d ago

Was the one you prayed to marry the one you ended up with?

+293
1d ago

When Ramadan Gets Too Heavy: My Struggle with Anxiety and Depression

+287
1d ago

My First Ramadan Experience

+171
2d ago

UAE Humanitarian Aid for Gaza During Ramadan

UAE Humanitarian Aid for Gaza During Ramadan
+299
2d ago

Thinking About Shahada & Learning Salah

+258
🌙

Welcome to the Salam.life!

🌐

AI translation of posts and comments into 30+ languages

👥

Separate feeds for Brothers and Sisters plus haram filter

💚

Charity projects from trusted Islamic foundations