Is it Islamically okay to put distance between me and my parents for safety?

As-salamu alaykum. I’m a Muslim girl close to legal adulthood and I need advice. I want to attend university in my home country where I have supportive adult siblings nearby. Becoming financially independent soon after graduation is crucial because my parents intend to arrange my marriage right after I finish, and they won’t allow me to work or support myself. I’m originally from another country where forced marriage, heavy stigma around divorce, and toleration of abuse are common. I’ve seen women-including relatives-suffer physical and emotional abuse and then be blamed by family and society if they try to leave. My parents dismiss forced marriage and have excused abusive behaviour. This gives me a real and credible fear for my safety and future. Religion has been used selectively to demand obedience, induce guilt and shame, while clear Islamic limits (such as forced marriage and harming others) are ignored. Refusing isn’t possible while I’m financially dependent because they would blackmail or coerce me. Living with them has meant long-term physical and psychological abuse, coercive control, and constant fear. Things are somewhat calmer now but the same controlling pattern remains, and staying in contact keeps exposing me to harm. My parents don’t object to university in principle, but they insist I study locally, live at home under their supervision, and follow their choices for my life and degree. I can’t accept that anymore. Studying locally would keep me under their roof, dependent, vulnerable to forced marriage, and pressured into a field they think will raise my “value” for marriage. They don’t take my education seriously because I’m a girl. I’m not against women choosing to stay home, but in our context financial dependence is often used to control wives. My mother says this is Islamically acceptable and shames me for wanting basic respect; she even tells us to stay in abusive marriages for the sake of reward. Yet my parents’ marriage negatively affects my younger siblings, who are beginning to reject religion because they associate it with control. If I leave against their wishes, I fear retaliation that could harm my younger siblings. My parents have threatened them before to force compliance. They are capable of violence, so I can’t dismiss that risk. My parents could support me financially but refuse to. I qualify for financial aid and scholarships, so funding isn’t the main barrier; I’d rely on grants, scholarships, student loans and a mandatory paid internship the university requires, plus support from my older siblings. Other mahram options are not viable. Based on past patterns, if I stay in contact while trying to become independent I will likely be guilt-tripped, threatened, or blackmailed into submission. For this reason, low-contact or no-contact may be necessary for a time. I do not want to cut ties with my younger siblings-I want to protect and support them. Is it Islamically permissible to distance myself or go no-contact with parents in situations like this? How can I protect my faith when religion has been used to convince me I’m sinful for wanting safety and independence? TL;DR: I’m a Muslim girl near adulthood. My parents only allow university if I live at home, which would keep me dependent and vulnerable to coercion and forced marriage. My home life has involved long-term abuse and religion has been misused against me. I want to study elsewhere with sibling support and financial aid, but that may require low/no contact for safety.