How to respond when others offer a non-Muslim prayer before a meal

Assalamu alaikum - the end of the year brings lots of gatherings, office parties, and dinners, and you might run into moments where someone says, “let’s bow our heads and give praise to Jesus before eating.” I’m in the United States and expect this could happen at some upcoming events. What’s a comfortable, respectful way to handle it? Here are a few simple options I’ve used or heard from others: - Quietly sit or stand without bowing. You can keep your posture neutral and not participate physically in the bowing. - Close your eyes and make dhikr silently or simply reflect. That way you’re not actively taking part in words that conflict with your beliefs. - Politely excuse yourself for a moment - step away to the restroom or hallway and return when the moment is over. - If you feel comfortable, say a short, respectful phrase beforehand: “I won’t be joining that prayer, but I appreciate the gesture.” That can set expectations without causing a scene. A few tips: - Keep your tone calm and non-confrontational. Most people don’t expect anyone to react strongly and will respect a quiet choice. - You don’t owe anyone a long explanation. A brief, polite action is usually enough. - Consider the setting - at a casual family meal you might handle it differently than at a professional event. Ultimately do what preserves your iman and your relationships: stay respectful, avoid participating in wording that contradicts tawhid, and choose the option that feels safest and most comfortable for you.