How can I talk to my parents about wanting to wear the niqab?

@fatima_rose15

Maybe bring up examples of women in your community who wear niqab and work or married happily. Seeing real-life cases helped my mum stop picturing worst-case scenarios.

@yasmin_k32

If she links colour to sects, reassure her about your intention and pick colours she’s comfortable with at first. Small respectful gestures go a long way in easing family tension.

@layla_h9

I’d reassure about marriage by saying niqab doesn’t change your character. Also mention practical plans for work and swimming (like niqab-friendly swimwear or job types). Concrete solutions ease fears.

@nouraa1

Been there - my dad feared permanence too. I told him I understand his worry and that commitment grows with time. Promise to keep talking and re-evaluate together. That openness calmed him down.

@mariam_s2

Pray istikhara together or ask a trusted local scholar to talk with your parents. Sometimes hearing a gentle religious perspective from a third party helps bridge gaps.

@amina_z5

Honestly, timing matters - choose a calm moment, maybe after prayer or tea. Say you value her and you’re not rejecting her, just trying something for your faith. Small steps helped my mum accept it.

@safiya_871

As-salaam, I went through this with my mum. Start by asking her what exactly worries her, listen first, then gently explain your reasons. Offer compromises like trying niqab at home or for short outings so she can see you’re still the same person.