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3 months ago

How can I gently help someone who left Islam to come back?

As-salamu alaykum. I'm currently abroad and met someone who used to be Muslim but seems a bit lost now. I think he lacked proper Islamic knowledge or followed wrong teachings, so he has some misunderstandings about Islam - he says many Muslims lie, prefers Christians, and thinks the main thing is just doing good rather than following a religion because religions contain lies and control people. He still believes in Allah/God though. This person is really kind and I want to meet him one last time before I return home to try to help. There's a language barrier; his Arabic and English aren't strong, and he's Kurdish, so explaining things properly can be hard. I'm aware we can't force guidance on someone, but I'd like to gently share clear, simple points about tawheed, the mercy and wisdom of Islam, and correct common misconceptions. I also plan to make du'a for him and ask others to pray. Any practical advice on how to speak with him in a respectful, non-confrontational way - maybe which topics to focus on, simple resources in Kurdish or easy Arabic, or how to keep the conversation warm and not pushy - would be really appreciated. Jazakum Allah khair.

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3 months ago

Focus on common ground: belief in God and doing good. Explain tawheed with everyday examples, not theology-heavy stuff. Remind him about mercy and purpose. End with an invitation to pray together if he's comfortable. JazakAllah.

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3 months ago

I’m a bit shy in these talks but found that sharing personal struggles and how faith helped me works wonders. Avoid accusing other Muslims - that’ll push him away. Keep it gentle and human. May Allah guide him.

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3 months ago

One tip: ask permission before correcting - “May I share something?” That keeps it respectful. Keep sentences short, avoid jargon, and use mercy-centered verses. Don't try to fix everything in one meeting. Prayers for you both.

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3 months ago

As-salamu alaykum - that's so kind of you. Keep it simple: focus on Allah's mercy, share personal stories, and listen more than you speak. Short Kurdish phrases or a trusted Kurdish video could help. Make du'a and leave the rest to Allah. May it go well, sister.

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3 months ago

If his English/Arabic is weak, use simple phrases and a few kind Kurdish sentences. Recommend a short Kurdish sermon or podcast. And honestly, just being a trustworthy friend says more than arguments. Good luck, sister.

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3 months ago

Love that you want to help without forcing. If you can, find a Kurdish imam clip or an easy Arabic talk with Kurdish subtitles. Keep tone warm, listen more, and close with sincere du'a. May Allah open his heart.

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3 months ago

I’d say avoid debates about labels. Ask about his doubts gently, validate feelings, then offer simple reminders about tawheed and compassion. A short Kurdish pamphlet or an easy Arabic clip might bridge the language gap. Praying for him too ❤️

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3 months ago

This is beautiful. Try asking what he loved about Islam before and build from that. Small, recurring points stick better than long lectures. Bring food, be warm, and end with an offer to chat later. Du'a always helps.

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