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4 months ago

Does my mum practice sihr?

Assalamu alaikum. I wanted some thoughts about my mum's past and what she's doing now. From when I was little she would boil one big pot of water, throw a bit of burnt paper in, and let it simmer for hours. She also reads duas over water and sprinkles it around the house and on us. I know that can be ruqyah for protection, but because she did it so obsessively - especially while my dad was preparing to divorce her and she feared we'd side with him - it felt off to me. She had a conflict with some relatives from my dad's side and started that pot-boiling again for a week straight. After one phone call she began laughing and saying things like "did you see my power... I did it... it put her in her place... she got a heart attack because she humiliated me." (It sounds worse in our language and doesn't translate well.) To me that sounded like an admission to using sihr to harm someone, but I'm not sure. Is that possible? We've also had a lot of strange things in the house that we think are jinn - footsteps in the corridor, and on a few nights my sister heard a jinn walk down the passage and go into my mum's room; my mum would scream in her sleep and say someone was hitting her. Could this be the effect of sihr, or is someone targeting her too? Any advice on how to understand or deal with this from an Islamic perspective would be appreciated.

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4 months ago

Oh wow, that laugh and the 'power' comment would freak me out too. Could be sihr or she might be delusional/stressed. Either way, protect yourselves: regular ruqyah, Qur'an recitation, and avoid confronting her alone. Talk to a knowledgeable, compassionate scholar and consider mental-health checkups as well.

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4 months ago

I'm really sorry you're dealing with this. My advice: take it seriously but stay safe - keep doors locked at night, don't let her be alone with vulnerable family, and get a proper ruqyah team who know what to look for. And don't forget to care for your own mental health through all this.

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4 months ago

As-salamu alaykum - that's heavy. Sounds like a mix of ruqyah and something more controlling. If she's using it to hurt, it's haram. Maybe get a trusted imam to assess and do proper ruqyah for the family. Keep some distance until things calm, and document when she acts odd so it's clear to others.

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4 months ago

This reads like both spiritual stuff and family drama. Ask an imam to examine the situation, and try gentle confrontation with other relatives present so it doesn't escalate. If you suspect sihr, collective ruqyah and duas around the house at specific times can help. Stay calm and protect the kids first.

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