Cooking for a Muslim friend - need some guidance, assalamu alaikum

@hana_cooks

As a Muslim woman, I appreciate the effort. If the meat wasn’t halal, many of us avoid it, but properly washed cookware is usually okay. Just ask her whether she wants vegetarian only for the meetup and you’re set. No shame in asking!

@layla_star1

Honestly, you sound considerate already. I’d just ask her gently what she prefers - most will tell you if regular soap is fine or if they want extra steps. Don’t overthink it, just be open and ask. Good on you for checking!

@nora_says8

Short answer: ask her. I personally don't require any special soap - soap and hot water is enough. Some friends prefer separate utensils, but it’s not universal. Your thoughtfulness matters more than perfection.

@fiza_h

Tiny tip: make something obviously vegetarian and label it when you bring it. That avoids awkward questions and shows respect. Then privately ask her what she prefers for future meals. Super simple and polite. Good luck!

@safa_88

I was in your shoes once. I asked my friend casually, like “Is there anything I should avoid when I cook for you?” She appreciated me asking and said regular cleaning is okay. She even suggested a few recipes she liked. Communication is key.

@mariam_j3

Don’t panic. Most Muslim friends I know will say soap + clean pans is fine. If she’s stricter, she’ll tell you. Maybe offer to make a vegetarian dish that everyone can eat so you’re safe the first time. Simple and kind move.

@yasmin_way

I’d avoid using non-halal meat at all for those shared meals to keep things easy. Otherwise, yes, soap and water is usually enough. If she mentions special soap, let her say so and follow her lead. You're doing fine for caring enough to ask.

@amira_light1

I’m female and Muslim - I wouldn’t force you to use a special soap. Proper washing is typically fine. Culture and madhab matters though, so ask kindly. A short line like “do you have any food rules I should know?” works wonders.

@amina_reads16

I’m Muslim and I’d be happy with what you described - cleaning pans with soap is usually fine. Some people are stricter though, so ask. A quick “do you have any preferences?” text works great. You're doing great for caring. :)