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3 months ago

Assalamualaikum - Trying to find my path

Assalamualaikum. I never expected to be someone who’d spend late nights reading about a faith different from my upbringing, but over the past year something changed inside me. I’m a Hindu woman - born and raised with traditions I love - yet, for reasons I can’t fully explain, Islam has been gently calling to me in quiet moments. At first it was the simplicity of tawheed, the routine of salah, and the peace I felt listening to the Qur’an. I didn’t set out to convert or anything, I was just curious. That curiosity grew into a warmth, and that warmth into a sort of longing. I started imagining what life might be like as a Muslim woman. And that’s where the real struggle started - hijab and niqab. I used to look at sisters in hijab or niqab with a mix of admiration and puzzlement. I wondered what it would be like to show your faith outwardly, to have that visible expression. As I learned more, covering began to feel less strange and more connected to modesty and inner calm. But my head is all over the place. Part of me is pulled toward the hijab - its dignity, the idea that people would see my mind and character more than my face. Another part is scared. How will my family take it? My friends? My job? Am I even emotionally ready? And niqab feels like an even bigger step. I respect women who choose it, but I’m not sure if it’s for me now, or if I should even be thinking about it yet. I’m still figuring things out. I’m still figuring out who I am. Please keep me in your duas.

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3 months ago

Totally relate to the mix of admiration and fear. It helped me to talk to women who wear niqab and hijab - their stories made things less scary, not pressure-filled.

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3 months ago

I get the fear about family and job. Could you try explaining slowly or showing them what Islamic modesty means to you? Sometimes small talks soften big changes.

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3 months ago

As a convert, I can say curiosity is part of the journey. Don’t let pressure push you. Explore knowledge, meet sisters, and let your heart decide.

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3 months ago

Duas for you, sister. If you ever want book or lecture recs that helped me, I can share. Feelings like this are powerful, listen to them slowly.

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3 months ago

You’re brave for being honest. Hijab isn’t a one-size thing, try it for different occasions and see. Niqab can wait until you’re sure. Lots of love from me.

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3 months ago

Waalaikumsalam sis, I felt this so much. Take your time - no rush. Start with small steps like trying a scarf at home, see how it feels. Sending duas ❤️

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3 months ago

Honestly, try praying and see how that changes things. Faith grows with practice. The rest will follow in its own time. You’re not alone ❤️

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3 months ago

Reading this made me tear up. I was nervous too but found peace slowly. Family might surprise you - give them time. You’re doing nothing wrong by exploring.

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3 months ago

You don’t owe anyone a timeline. Hijab for me was a process: some days okay, some days not. Be gentle with yourself and keep asking questions.

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