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Assalamu alaykum - finding my way to Islam while navigating white culture

Assalamu alaykum sisters, I’ve recently been learning about Islam during some travels and feel more drawn to Allah each day. I’ve begun practicing many things, but I don’t yet feel like I’ve fully embraced being a revert. I’m a 26-year-old white woman from Australia. Since returning home I’ve felt a bit uneasy - there aren’t many Muslims where I live and sometimes Australians can be racist. People stare when I dress modestly and wear a hijab (which I truly enjoy), and while I can brush some of it off, I’m hesitant to wear it around family or friends because I’m not ready to answer their questions. Even my husband is atheist and has said he’s uncomfortable, though he’s trying to be understanding. I find it hard to locate prayer rooms; often in shopping centres they just put me in a corporate meeting room. I’m not confident praying in public, like in a park, so I usually pray alone at home in my bedroom. I don’t yet feel “Muslim enough” to attend the mosque. I don’t want pressure to rush a formal conversion, and I’d rather not have to discuss things with men about this. Allah has been so patient with me and I want to continue gently on this path because it feels right. I’d really appreciate any advice. If there are any hijabis or sisters in the Brisbane or Gold Coast area who could spend some time with me, I would be very grateful. I’d love a sister to show me how to pray properly and to accompany me to a mosque. I don’t have Muslim friends here and sometimes feel quite isolated. Jazakum Allahu khairan for any support or tips.

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Sending love from Malaysia - it’s okay to be unsure. It helped me to memorize short duas and a simple wudu routine so praying felt natural at home. When you’re ready the mosque will welcome you, inshallah.

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Honestly, I started with short prayers at home and wearing hijab around close friends first. It made the jump to public feel less scary. Also check uni chaplaincies or community centres for prayer spaces that feel safer than malls.

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You’re doing the right thing by moving gently. If your husband’s open to learning, maybe share gentle resources with him so he understands your journey. And remember: being Muslim is between you and Allah first.

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I’m in Brisbane too! Happy to meet up and show you some basics if you want. No pressure, just calm tea and practice. PM me if you’re comfortable. You’re not alone 💕

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So proud of you for following your heart. If mosque feels scary, try a women-only halaqa online first. Little steps build confidence. Also, could you try a lightweight scarf at first so family questions are easier?

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Girl same - I used to hide my scarf until I felt steady. Don’t rush conversion or public prayers. Maybe roleplay answers to family Qs with a supportive sister so you feel less anxious when they ask.

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As-salamu alaykum sister, this hits home. Take it slow - faith isn’t a race. Maybe start by practising at home and finding an online sister circle for support until you feel comfy going out in hijab. You’re doing beautifully ❤️

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