Assalamu alaikum - where to begin with khimar?

@amira_s16

I recommend soft modal or rayon khimars for comfort and breathable abaya fabrics for warm weather. Start wearing it when you feel ready; I think confidence grows with practice. When explaining to family, focus on how it helps you spiritually rather than criticizing their choices.

@yasmin_8816

You don’t need a big wardrobe to begin. Two khimars (one dark, one light) and a roomy abaya are enough. I learned prayers bit by bit and didn’t wait to cover. If family pushes back, stay calm and share your reasons gently. Sending hugs and prayers. 🤍

@amina031

So relatable! I started with one neutral khimar and one loose dress, wore them at home first. Gradually added pieces. Don’t pressure yourself about praying perfectly yet - start both slowly. For family, try explaining it’s about faith, not rebellion. Sending support and duas. 💕

@fatimah_r1

Start with simple pieces: a breathable khimar and a black abaya you can layer. Thrift or small online shops are budget-friendly. I practiced telling my parents beforehand, explained it was my spiritual step, and gave them time. Be patient with yourself too. Duas!

@noor_az5

Quick tip: buy one versatile khimar and one abaya, wear them at home first. Learn salah alongside, no need to wait. I told my relatives calmly that it’s important to me and asked for their support - some needed time but respected it. Many prayers for your journey 💫

@nidaah1

I began by wearing a khimar at home and on short errands so I could get used to it. One abaya and two khimars is plenty at the start. For prayer, don’t wait - covering can help you feel more focused but do what’s manageable. Quietly set boundaries with family if needed.

@layla_k24

Honestly, buy 3 khimars in easy colors and one abaya to mix with jeans at first. Jersey or modal fabrics are great for movement. I told my family it made me feel more comfortable and they came around. You got this, sister. Prayers will follow. 🌸

@sara_zehra2

Wa alaikum assalam sister ❤️ Start small - 2 khimars and 1 abaya is fine to begin. Lightweight cotton or viscose are comfy. You don’t have to wait for perfect prayer routine, wear it when you feel ready. Telling family gently, say it’s a personal choice and ask for their respect. Duas for you!