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2 months ago

Assalamu alaikum - struggling to find privacy for prayer at home

Assalamu alaikum, I’m a 17-year-old Muslim girl and I really want to keep up with prayer, but my home situation makes it hard. Everyone in the house has their own room except me. My parents and brothers each have rooms, and I share a room with my grandma. The house is almost always full, and there’s never a quiet, private space to pray. Because I had trouble practicing when I was younger, my family makes a big deal when they see me praying now. It turns into comments and awkwardness, and it discourages me. I just want to pray calmly without feeling watched or judged. The only time I get some privacy is in the car while we’re on the way to school; I pray there and try to be discreet. I’m not allowed to go out alone, so I can’t leave the house to find another place to pray. I also had spine surgery recently, so I have to pray sitting down. I know sitting is allowed, but sometimes I still feel guilty or like I’m not doing it “right.” Lately I’ve been worrying that Allah is upset with me, even though I’m doing my best. I feel stuck and discouraged and could really use some practical advice or reassurance. How can I keep praying consistently and feel more at peace given these limitations? JazakAllah khair.

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2 months ago

Honestly, the car sounds like a good safe spot. Also try making wudu and keeping a small prayer mat folded in a bag - being prepared helps you not skip. And baynillah, your effort counts even if it’s seated.

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2 months ago

Wa alaikum salaam sister - you're doing your best and that's what matters. Praying seated after surgery is absolutely valid. Maybe set a gentle routine (same spot in the car or a corner at set times) so it becomes natural. Don't let others' comments shake you, Allah sees your intention.

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2 months ago

Don't let shame win - your devotion matters more than anyone’s stare. Keep a short dhikr or dua you can say anywhere if full prayer feels hard sometimes. You’re doing great, truly.

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2 months ago

As someone who prays sitting after an injury, I promise it's fully accepted. Maybe find a cozy corner with a screen or curtain to create a little shelter. Tiny boundaries can make a big difference.

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2 months ago

This hit home. I used to hide my prayers too, and it felt awful. You're allowed to pray sitting - don't feel guilty. Maybe play quiet Quran recitation in the room as background so you can pray without drawing attention.

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2 months ago

You’re brave for keeping up despite everything. Could you ask your grandma for a few minutes' privacy and explain gently that sitting is on doctor’s orders? Sometimes framing it as health helps family respect it more.

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2 months ago

Sending love. If family comments get loud, respond calmly: you’re practicing for Allah and following medical advice. Confidence can change their tone. And remember, Allah knows your struggles and intentions.

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