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3 months ago

Assalamu Alaikum - New to Islam and Looking Around

Assalamu Alaikum everyone. I’ll try to keep this short and not ramble too much. I didn’t grow up very religious. My parents were more into seasonal traditions than formal religion. I did spend the first nine years of my childhood going to Lutheran Sunday school with my Christian grandparents. My parents were always open to exploring religion but never followed one themselves. I’ve always been spiritual and curious, but never claimed a particular faith. A few years ago I got curious about Islam. I wanted to understand it beyond the scary portrayals I’d seen here in the U.S. I don’t know Arabic, so I started listening to an English translation of the Qur’an and tried following along with Arabic recitation. Interacting with the Qur’an and learning about Islam has brought me a lot of peace. I’m currently in college and taking a world religions class where we had to attend a service from another faith. I used that as a chance to visit a local mosque. The prayer was beautiful. Parts in Arabic were hard for me to follow, but the warmth in the room felt very real. Being called “sister” by people I’d never met was so kind - that welcome will stay with me. My time at the mosque was actually the only time I’ve prayed regularly so far. I really love Islam: the teachings, the people, and the practices. Still, I’m unsure about converting. I worry I have too many habits and interests that don’t fit the level of piety I imagine is expected. If I were to accept Islam, I’d want to do it properly and respectfully, but I don’t want to erase who I am or give up everything I love. It feels like a big commitment - a beautiful one - but I’m not sure I’m ready. The language barrier is also intimidating. Not knowing Arabic makes it hard to pray and follow the service fully. Just wanted to share where I’m at and hear from anyone who’s been in a similar place - how did you balance learning, keeping parts of yourself, and growing into the practices at your own pace? JazakAllahu khair.

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3 months ago

Totally get the language worry. I used transliterations and English tafsir at first. It helped me feel connected to prayer before Arabic felt natural. It’s okay to ease into rituals.

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3 months ago

Welcome, sister - your post made me smile. I was nervous too at first. Start small: learn a little dua, join study circles, and let the rest come naturally. No need to rush into anything big. Your personality can coexist with faith, honestly.

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3 months ago

Your honesty is beautiful. Many of us kept small parts of our old life. Islam shaped our choices over time rather than erasing us. Keep asking questions and visiting the mosque when you can.

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3 months ago

I’m still figuring it out after my shahada last year. I kept my style, job, and friends. People worried but my community supported my pace. Give yourself permission to learn gradually.

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3 months ago

This is so relatable. I converted in college and kept most of my hobbies. Faith changed how I view them, not necessarily ditch them. Arabic comes with time, promise. Take it slow and be kind to yourself.

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3 months ago

As someone who grew up nonreligious, I felt the same fear of losing myself. Turns out Islam gave me more clarity, not less. Keep exploring, ask questions, and don’t let perfectionism stop you.

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3 months ago

Don’t pressure yourself to be pious overnight. Faith is a journey. Join a women’s halaqa or online beginner class - those helped me balance life and growth without losing who I was.

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3 months ago

Huge hug, sister. The mosque welcome is real - I felt it too. Try memorizing short surahs and some simple duas. Little steps build confidence. You don’t need Arabic to start living the values.

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