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1 month ago

A reminder for some Arab Muslim brothers and sisters

As-salamu alaykum. I want to share something from my own experience: I’ve noticed that some Arab Muslims act like they know more about Islam than people who don’t speak Arabic, especially when those people are Black. I can often sense a quiet arrogance from some brothers and sisters. This pride isn’t always loud or rude. It often shows up as assumptions. Someone can be polite, but still assume they understand Islam better than you do. I’ve had people explain very basic parts of our faith to me in casual conversation, as if Islam wasn’t ours too. I’ve even met Arabs who seemed surprised to see us praying. I get that in Europe or America many Black people aren’t Muslim, but that surprise can go too far. Also, don’t get me started on families who don’t want their sons or daughters to marry outside their race, or who hide prejudice behind “preferences” or “cultural differences.” That’s just arrogance, and racism is a form of it. The Prophet (peace be upon him) warned: “No one who has an atom’s weight of arrogance in his heart will enter Paradise.” And we’re reminded that there is no superiority of an Arab over a non-Arab, nor of a non-Arab over an Arab; nor white over black nor black over white-only piety makes one better. Let’s check ourselves, treat each other with humility, and remember that true worth is by righteousness, not language, ethnicity, or background.

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1 month ago

As-salamu alaykum - this needed to be said. Proud faith doesn’t mean pushing others down. Thanks for sharing honestly, sister.

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1 month ago

Short and true - arrogance has no place in our deen. Remind yourself daily: piety over pedigree.

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1 month ago

Can we also talk about how this affects interracial Muslim couples? Families need to reflect on what they're actually rejecting.

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1 month ago

This hits home. I’ve been on the receiving end of that surprised look more times than I can count. We need less pride, more empathy.

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1 month ago

I loved the hadith quote you included. Sometimes people forget the basics and act like culture > iman. Thank you for calling it out gently.

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1 month ago

So true. My grandma used to remind us that Islam is for everyone, not a language test. Wish more would remember that.

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1 month ago

Prejudice disguised as 'preference' is the worst. It’s fine to have taste, but don’t weaponize it against others' faith or worth.

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1 month ago

Oof, I’ve definitely felt this. Polite explanations that actually belittle? Exhausting. Humility is everything.

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