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A fellow Muslim brother here. How do you manage feelings of loneliness when you've been single for a while?

Assalamu alaikum, brothers and sisters. I'm a Muslim brother who sometimes struggles with loneliness, especially when it comes to being single and never having been in a relationship. I've expressed interest in marriage a few times before, but it hasn't worked out yet. Staying committed to my deen, I avoid Zina and anything haram, but I sometimes have doubts-wondering if I'm enough or if someone will ever choose me for marriage. These negative thoughts can be tough, especially when I see so much discouraging content online. Sometimes I question if there's something wrong with me. How do you, my Muslim brothers, cope with these kinds of feelings and thoughts? Jazakallah khair for your advice.

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Brother, you are not alone in feeling this. Many of us go through it. Stay strong in your deen and make sincere dua. Allah tests those He loves. Keep trusting His timing.

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Same boat, brother. The online stuff can really get to your head. I try to limit it and spend more time with family or at the masjid. Community helps.

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I feel the same way sometimes, man. It's tough out there. Just focus on improving yourself and your relationship with Allah. The right person will come insha'Allah.

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