Stop waiting for motivation - create it (Assalamu Alaikum)
Assalamu Alaikum - I've been reading a lot about self-improvement lately and one obvious pattern keeps showing up: most posts are basically the same thing. “I want to start habit X, I tried and failed / I'm lazy / I'm procrastinating / how do I make it stick?” What holds people back is they keep hunting for some magical burst of motivation and avoid taking any steps. What really works is the opposite: action builds motivation, not the other way around. So start small, build momentum, and let that carry you forward - with the intention (niyyah) of pleasing Allah, of course. All the excuses sound familiar: - “I want to go to the gym but I don’t have a perfect plan” - just begin, you'll learn as you go. - “I tried journaling for 10 days then stopped, am I broken?” - no, pick up where you left off and try again. - “I want to do X but I’m lazy” - either you want it, or you don’t. Make a choice and act. - “I keep wasting time on YouTube/Instagram/TikTok instead of studying” - set app blockers, schedule short focused sessions after salah, and stick to them. - “I tried X and it felt hard” - good, it means it matters. Push through with sabr (patience). - “I need to read 15 books about habits and watch hours of motivational videos first” - that’s procrastination dressed up as preparation. Just start. The approach is simple: decide if you truly want this, shape your environment to support you, and then do it. Remember two basic truths: - Action creates motivation. Once you act, motivation follows - stop waiting for it. - Environment beats motivation. Make small changes: remove distractions, set reminders tied to your prayer times, ask a friend or spouse for accountability, or make a small, halal wager to keep you honest. Take a small first step and keep moving - with consistent effort and tawakkul (trust in Allah). That's mostly it; everything else is often just a distraction.