Should I follow my heart or my parents’ wishes when choosing a spouse?

Assalamu alaikum. I’m in a tough spot. There’s a sister I’ve gotten to know for marriage. We met a few times in a halal setting and talked deeply about deen, life, and our values. Her character and modesty really won me over. She’s devout, prays regularly, and found Islam strongly on her own-she even makes dua for her parents to become more practicing. Their household isn’t as committed though, and that’s the problem. When I told my parents, they rejected the idea because they know her family’s reputation and are worried about our name. My father got very upset and said I’ll ruin the family’s honor if I marry into a home like that. He told me to forget her or leave the house. I don’t want to disobey my parents-it would break me inside. But this girl is sincere, kind, and kept everything proper. She didn’t do anything wrong. I can’t imagine hurting her. I’m torn. Any advice?