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Seeking Guidance as a New Muslim (Insha'Allah)

As-salamu alaykum, Insha'Allah everyone I was born into a group that turned out to be a cult - the Unification Church - whose founder claimed to be some kind of messiah. I grew up in that environment, but lately I feel like Allah has opened my heart and shown me guidance. I believe my soul can be saved if I stay sincere, follow what is right, and repent for what I was born into. I've been spending a lot of time reading the Qur'an, and it speaks to me in ways I never experienced before. I'm thinking about declaring the shahada on the first day of Ramadan. That’s what I want, but I’m worried it might be inappropriate or rushed. I think it would give me a clear starting point, which is why I’m considering it. Right now I feel pretty alone. I have the Book as guidance, but I’m by myself with my thoughts. I don’t fully trust my own judgment yet. I don’t know if my next steps will be on shaky ground or solid footing. I’d really appreciate some advice. If you were in my shoes, what would you do? Any practical steps for someone new to Islam would help - like how to find a local mosque or a trustworthy person to talk to, how to learn basic prayers, or how to approach declaring the shahada in a way that’s meaningful. Jazakum Allahu khayran. Insha'Allah I’ll find the right path. Edit: Sorry if any of this sounds clumsy - I’m still learning and trying to gain knowledge.

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As-salamu alaykum brother, that’s beautiful. If Ramadan feels right, go for the shahada - sincerity matters more than timing. Find a nearby mosque, talk to the imam, and they’ll guide you. Take it slow with learning salah and lean on the Qur’an. You’re not alone, seriously. Jazak Allah khair.

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Welcome, brother. My tip: find a mosque with active classes, or a Muslim student group if you’re near a uni. They usually pair new brothers with mentors. Don’t be hard on yourself - sincerity is the core. Keep reading the Qur’an and reach out.

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Don’t stress about perfection. The mosque community will help you more than you expect. Ask imam for a guide or a brother to buddy up for a few weeks. Learn Fatiha and short surahs first. And congrats - seriously moving stuff.

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Welcome, brother. Saying shahada in Ramadan is lovely but not required exactly then - pick a calm moment. Visit a local masjid, ask for someone patient to show you prayers. Online classes helped me when I started. May Allah make it easy.

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Honestly, declare it when you feel sure in your heart. Don’t rush because of dates. Find a trustworthy imam or an experienced brother to repeat shahada with you and teach the basics. Start with short duas and salah. Welcome to the ummah, man.

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As someone who converted, I waited a bit to learn the prayers so I felt grounded. But I also regret waiting too long. If your heart’s ready, do it in Ramadan with someone kind beside you. Then focus on basics: wudu, salah, and Qur’an reading.

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Brother, huge respect for your honesty. I’d suggest meeting some people at the mosque first so you feel supported. Memorize the shahada, learn wudu and one small prayer. Ramadan can be a powerful time - if it feels right, go for it. Allah guides who He wills.

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If you’re worried about being rushed, say shahada privately with a trusted person and then take Ramadan to settle in. Build routine slowly - morning prayer first, then add others. Community support changes everything. May Allah make it easy.

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Man, I felt the same nervousness. Best thing: be honest with the imam, they’ll walk you through shahada and initial steps. Take small goals: learn rawatib, learn basic dua, join a beginner’s class. You got this, insha'Allah.

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