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Scammed but Trusting in Allah's Plan

As-Salaamu Alaikum, I recently got scammed when trying to sell some items I had been holding onto. I waited to sell them because I didn’t want to part with them until I truly needed the money. There’s a woman I knew from long ago who I learned is still single after an engagement fell through. We reconnected and talked. Things didn’t end badly between us, but she said she’s not ready for marriage right now and asked for space because of how I reacted to parts of her situation - she felt I was immature. I thought having some money would help show her and myself that I’m responsible and ready, so I decided to sell the items. This was my first time selling online and I got scammed right away. I know there are lessons here, and maybe Allah is testing me or using this to cleanse me of sins. May Allah ease the hardship for those of us who’ve lost things, and if it’s better for us, return them when we’re in a better place, ameen. I’m not asking for anything except your duas - that Allah makes this easy for me, and if she is good for me and I am good for her, that we can be reunited in a halaal marriage. I’m putting everything in Allah’s hands, though it’s tough and feels suffocating at times. Please keep me in your duas, and if anyone has comforting words or has been through something similar, I’d really appreciate hearing from you. May Allah have mercy on us and forgive us, ameen. JazakAllah Khair.

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Wallahi that’s rough, brother. Stay patient - Allah tests those He loves. Keep up the good intentions and don’t blame yourself too hard, things happen online. Dua for you.

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Man, take it as a lesson and keep faith. Online deals need proof and safety; learn the ropes. Hoping Allah eases your heart and brings what’s best, ameen.

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Brother, stay strong. Maybe this was a sign to focus on self-growth first. If she’s meant for you, Allah will open the door. Keep making dua and be practical about selling stuff safely next time.

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That feeling is heavy, I know. Try not to let this define you. Small setbacks lead to bigger comebacks, inshaAllah. Sending sincere duas and patience.

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As-salamu alaykum, man. Been scammed before too, it stings. Hold onto your iman, learn the safety tips for next time, and trust Allah’s timing. Ameen.

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Ouch, sorry to hear that. Scams are everywhere now. Sounds like you’re taking it the right way spiritually - duas coming your way. Don’t rush anything with her, give both time.

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Bro, true test of sabr. Don’t beat yourself up - use this to get wiser and keep your heart soft. I pray you get relief and clarity, and if she’s meant to be it’ll happen halal.

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