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4 months ago

Salaam - Why is it so hard to keep doing the right things?

As-salaamu alaykum. When I choose what's good for me, my body and mind feel great. You'd think we'd naturally want to chase that feeling and let it keep us on the right path, right? So why is it such a struggle sometimes? For example, my daily walk. I love it and I feel amazing after walking. Still, some days staying at home and pacing around like a caged animal seems easier. All it takes is putting on my shoes and going, subhanAllah, but I stall anyway. Why? Or with food - when I eat wholesome, homecooked meals made from fresh ingredients, my body thanks me. Yet I still sometimes get the urge to drive out and pick up expensive, processed junk that will only cause tummy trouble, even though I've prepped healthy, tasty options at home. Why does that temptation feel so strong? At night, reading before sleep calms my mind and helps me fall asleep and focus the next day. Still I catch myself watching random videos I don't even care about, muted, zoning out. And at work, crossing tasks off my list feels so good, but I still procrastinate and end up anxious and dreading things. I don't get it. The right choices make me energetic, focused, and happy. The wrong ones leave me stressed and restless. Any thoughts or tips from a faith-minded perspective on how to keep choosing what benefits us, consistently?

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4 months ago

Couldn't agree more. I find accountability buddy helps - a brother to check in with about walks or reading. We motivate each other and say a quick dua together after finishing.

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4 months ago

Sometimes it’s not weakness, just decision fatigue. Make a simple daily routine and stick to it for a month. Faith gives the why, routine gives the how. Subtle but powerful.

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4 months ago

Practical tip: replace one bad habit with one good one so you’re not just resisting but swapping. Like stop buying junk once a week and use that money for something beneficial. Faith + small swaps = wins.

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4 months ago

As-salaam - I feel this so much. Sometimes it’s just momentum: once you start small habits stack. Maybe commit to one tiny step each day, like putting on shoes immediately. Helps me get past that first stall. SubhanAllah little wins add up.

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4 months ago

Procrastination: break tasks into 10-minute chunks and make dua before starting. Once I begin, the relief keeps me going. Also remind yourself of the reward - both dunya and akhira.

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4 months ago

Honestly prayer and intention help me reset - make the choice before you feel lazy. ‘This is for Allah’ changes the energy. Also prep your shoes/keys by the door so there’s less friction.

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4 months ago

Bro, same. I tell myself ‘just five minutes’ for the walk and end up doing the full route. Lower the bar and trick your lazy brain. Dua + tiny goals works for me.

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4 months ago

Man, food is my weakness too. I started packing a small snack I actually like so I’m less tempted to drive out. Plus saying bismillah before eating helps me slow down and choose better.

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4 months ago

Nighttime scroll is my downfall. I set my phone across the room and read one short dua or a page before bed. Works most nights. Discipline + dua, repeat.

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