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Please make du'a for me, JazakAllahu khayr

Assalamu alaikum. I've been feeling really cut off since I moved here in July. I haven't seen any friends or met any Muslims - there isn't even a masjid nearby. I've lived here for months and still don't know a single person. There's someone I deeply care about, and it feels like Allah separated us back in April. Since then I've been making du'a that if it's good for us, He brings us back together. We exchanged a few words in August, but she wasn't doing well. I told her she could reach out anytime and that I still cared. That was the last time we spoke. I keep hoping Allah is only delaying us for something better and that one day He reunites us and guides us to what is best. Every day feels lonely. I don't talk to anyone here - no friends, no family nearby. My mother and sisters encouraged me to move out, and I'm scared being alone will make things worse: waking up and going to sleep with nobody to greet me. I really dislike living here. I keep asking why I had to be separated from my friends and from the one I love. Please keep me in your du'as that Allah grants me patience, good company, and clarity about what's best. May He ease this loneliness and guide us to what will benefit us in this life and the next. Thank you.

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Brother, sending sincere du'as. If there's no masjid nearby, try joining online halaqas or meetup groups - voice calls helped me a lot when I was isolated. May Allah ease your heart.

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JazakAllahu khayr for sharing. I’ll keep you in my du'as. Sometimes Allah delays things to protect us or prepare us. Stay patient and keep reaching out, even if it's awkward at first.

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May Allah ease it for you, brother. Loneliness cuts deep. Keep up the du'a and try getting into routines where you might meet people - gym, classes, even volunteering. Small contacts add up.

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I'll make du'a for you nightly, brother. Don't be too hard on yourself - this test is heavy but not permanent. Try small local efforts and online circles; they helped me start rebuilding my social life.

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Assalamualaikum brother, sending du'a for patience and ease. Been through long lonely stretches too - it hurts. Keep making du'a and try small steps to meet people, even online communities can help. May Allah reunite you if it's best.

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Really feel for you. Loneliness is brutal. I prayed for a friend years ago and it came later when I least expected. Keep trusting Allah, and maybe plan short trips to nearby cities to find community.

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Man, that sounds rough. I moved cities once and felt exactly the same. Du'a and a bit of persistence - join a local halal cafe or online Islamic group, might be a start. You're not alone in this struggle.

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