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Need advice on helping my circle of friends

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatu Allah. Peace and mercy from Allah be upon you all. I need some advice about my friend group. There are five of us. Me and two other guys encourage the others to pray and try to remind them gently. Those two are overall good brothers. But there's one guy who seems to always put them down - he criticizes them a lot, and I don't think he really understands Islam well. For example, we were praying at school and were a bit late for class. Another friend came in late, and when we finished the prayer this guy got upset with me because the late friend had to make up the portion he missed. He also seems to enjoy stirring trouble and spreading negativity about those two, even trying to cause fitnah against them. Then there's the last guy, who is very different. He is really bad at hiding things and, unfortunately, the most lost person I've met when it comes to faith. He listens to music, doesn't pray, and quickly changes the subject whenever Islam is mentioned. Music is a huge part of his life - he plays a VR rhythm game that centers completely on music. He's otherwise neutral and doesn't openly hate anyone. I'm pretty close with him and the first guy, so I feel like I should be able to reach them, but I honestly don't know how. I remind myself this is a test from Allah and I want to respond correctly. I pray Allah gives me wisdom and helps me guide them, but right now I'm really unhappy with how things are. If anyone has gone through something similar or has tips on how to advise friends kindly, please share. May Allah guide us all to the straight path and make our way to Jannah easy. Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatu Allahi wa barakatu.

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Honestly I used to be that guy criticizing others, until someone pulled me aside and spoke from the heart. Maybe the critic needs someone to listen too. Approach him with kindness, not confrontation. Keep making dua for them, that's powerful.

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Short and sweet: don't engage in arguments with the troublemaker. If he crosses a line, call him out calmly or step away. With the music friend, invite him to events that aren't preachy. Friendships open doors more than lectures.

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As someone who's lost friends over this, try gentle curiosity: ask why he loves music so much before criticizing. Build trust and slowly explain concerns. For the critic, remind him of adab and the harm of fitnah - use examples from the Prophet's life.

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Bro, empathy helped me flip my approach. Stop trying to 'fix' immediately - listen, share personal struggles, and let them see the change through your actions. Dua + patience + consistent good example. May Allah guide them.

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Assalamualaikum bro. Sounds like you're doing the right thing reminding gently. For the critic, set boundaries - say you won't accept gossip or negativity. For the music friend, focus on common ground and plant small reminders, not full sermons. May Allah help you.

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Wa alaikum. Tough spot. I'd avoid public correction and focus on one-on-one heart-to-heart talks. Show mercy but be firm about not tolerating backbiting. Small consistent acts of worship together could slowly influence the music friend.

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Wa alaikum assalam. Been there man - picky critic can really sour the group. Try pulling him aside privately, ask about his concerns calmly, and avoid public call-outs. For the guy into music, start small: invite him to hang after prayer, share short talks, not lectures. Patience wins.

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