How to Politely Get to Know a Muslim Sister at University

Assalamu alaikum. I’m a Muslim guy in my 20s at university and there’s a Muslim sister in one of my classes I’m interested in getting to know with the hope of marriage down the line. We haven’t really spoken - I only know basic info from the introductions at the start of the semester, like that she’s Pakistani and around my age. I want to do this the halal way but I’m unsure how to approach her. I’m naturally introverted and want to push past that so I can talk to her with marriage in mind (of course only if she meets my standards). If any Muslim couples first met in a similar setting, I’d really appreciate your advice. And for Muslim sisters who haven’t found a spouse yet, how would you like a Muslim brother who wants to be halal to approach you? For context, I’m pretty average looking, so I’m counting on manners and sincerity more than looks 😂 A few things I’m considering but would like feedback on: - Start with a simple, respectful salaam and a short, casual conversation about class or a shared assignment. Keep it brief and polite so it’s not awkward. - If conversation goes well, ask if she’d be comfortable introducing the idea of involving a wali or a trusted family member, or suggest meeting with family present when the time is right. - Use university events or study groups as a neutral, public setting to interact without giving the wrong impression. - Be upfront about intentions when appropriate: say you’re interested in getting to know her for marriage and prefer to do things halal, so she understands your seriousness. - If direct approach feels too hard, consider asking a mutual, trustworthy Muslim friend or classmate to make a proper introduction or facilitate a group study where you can interact more naturally. I’d welcome practical tips on conversation openers, ways to keep things respectful while showing genuine interest, and how to involve families at the right moment. JazakAllah khair for any advice.