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How can I learn to trust others in faith?

I really struggle to trust people, you know? I do trust Allah, and myself, and my dedication to Him. But what bothers me isn't that people are out to get me-it's that I doubt their trust in Allah. Like, how can I expect them to be as devoted? How can I expect my future wife to love Him as much as I do? To follow His guidance instead of giving in to doubts and whims. I'm just a cynical person. I don't think most people, like 99%, will ever come close to believing the right way. To them, Allah is just a comfort blanket. They'd betray Him, and me, the second it's convenient.

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Bro, I feel you. But don't let cynicism blind you to the good in the ummah. There are sincere believers, you just have to make dua to recognize them. Trust is built slowly, not assumed.

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Trust in Allah includes trusting His plan in connecting you with the right people. It's not naive-it's tawakkul. Yes, some will falter, but don't close your heart to the sincere ones out there.

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