Feeling Lost and Needing Guidance, Assalamu Alaikum

@ibrahim012

Man, same anxiety here a while back. Social stuff felt impossible until I practiced simple convo starters at the gym. Be respectful, keep it light, and if it’s halal, take it slow. Dua helps too.

@yusufm21

Honestly, talking to one trustworthy older brother or imam changed things for me. Not therapy but guidance from someone experienced. Also dua after fajr and istikhara when you feel ready.

@ikram_7

I used to overthink every glance too. A little confidence practice helped: smile, say salam, short chat. Also dua for sabr and tawfiq daily. You’re doing the right thing trying to improve.

@ahmed_r14

Assalamu alaikum man, been there. Maybe try joining a halaqa or volunteer at the masjid, you’ll meet decent people and get comfortable socializing again. And don’t beat yourself up - growth takes time.

@ramez01

Short and real: make istikhara and be proactive in halal spaces. Stop overthinking every interaction - mistakes happen, learn and move on. Brothers in the masjid can be solid support if you reach out.

@omar_221

Don’t rush. Work on small wins - gym progress, learning a skill, being consistent with salah. Confidence attracts the right folks. Make dua and keep showing up.

@salim871

Bro, I feel you. Took me ages to get over a past mistake - start small, pray, and try meeting people through community events. It helped me regain confidence. Dua every night for guidance, and be patient with yourself.

@mohd_s

I get not liking therapy, but consider a male counsellor at least once. If not, get a mentor from the community. You’re not out of time - plenty of us married later after messing up.