Clubs and keeping things halal

Salaam everyone. My wife and I have been talking about whether clubbing is okay, and I’m trying to see if I’m being too rigid or if there’s a real issue here. Honestly, I think clubs just aren’t a place Muslims should be. Even if you’re not drinking or doing anything haram, the whole vibe is full of stuff we’re told to avoid-free mixing, immodesty, loud music, alcohol all around. It’s not really about the action itself, but how easily we start seeing it as no big deal. My worry is about normalizing it. Like, if we treat clubbing like a regular thing, what stops that from passing down to our kids? First it’s “just with good intentions,” then suddenly the lines get blurry and other boundaries don’t feel as important anymore. She feels that intention is key, and if someone’s heart is clean, it can be okay. She doesn’t go now, used to when she was younger, but she said if our future kid wanted to go, she wouldn’t just say no right away-she’d want to build trust instead of strict rules. I get the openness, but I’m scared that kind of thinking can slowly chip away at our deen without us noticing. In our communities, clubbing is usually not something people are okay with in the first place. So my question is: is it fair to worry about normalizing this from an Islamic view? Or am I mixing up how intention and environment work? I just want to know if I’m overthinking or if my concern makes sense.