Assalamu alaikum - New to Islam: How Should I Handle This Situation?

Assalamu alaikum. I’m new to Islam and trying to learn how to act in ways pleasing to Allah. I’ve been reading the Noble Qur’an, praying, and speaking with Muslim friends about getting more involved in the faith and community. Charity and helping others attracted me to Islam, and I want to do the right thing. Before I embraced Islam, I was financially supporting a woman because I hoped it would lead to a relationship. That didn’t work out, and we stopped talking for a couple of months. Lately she’s been messaging more often and hinting or asking for money. I know she has needs, and part of me wants to help because charity is important, but I’m worried about enabling dependence and about my own financial limits - I can’t afford to support her like I used to. Does anyone have advice on how to respond in a way that’s responsible and in line with Islamic values? I’m thinking of options like: - Setting clear, kind boundaries and explaining my situation honestly, - Offering one-time help if I can afford it but making it clear it won’t be ongoing, - Directing her to community resources or local charitable organizations and the mosque that might assist, - Encouraging her to seek stable support or work and offering non-financial help (advice, references), - Avoiding private financial dependence that could cause fitna or unhealthy expectations. I’d appreciate practical suggestions or gentle ways to phrase a reply that’s respectful, compassionate, and Islamic. Jazakum Allahu khayran.